4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Understand that relationships come to a point where it must be rebuilt, from the foundation, or break completely. We are sometimes naïve going into relationships, not comprehending all the struggles and challenges that we will face. Our hearts are captivated by a tantalizing love. As our relationships grow, blessings cascaded into a current that sweeps us away. often times we are not fully prepared for the shock of true commitment. The feelings that develop for one another are so strong, so pure, that we do not see anything tearing them apart. We underestimate the severity of our future situations. We have the intention to built a strong fortress to fall back on, but we don't always design it to the specifications to which the attacks that may be trying to destroy it.
Everyone has made mistakes, it's not solely one person's fault, but rather a combination of each person's mistakes. If two people truly desire to make a relationship work, they must both work on it. Focusing on the mistakes won’t make things better. Sometimes people need to go back to the beginning, where they are truly committed to one another. You must desire to see the relationship work! I believe that all couples can make it, but only together! You must start off small, there are too many things that need work to take them all on at once. Change won't happen overnight, but it's something that needs to happen if things are to work.
The word love is both a verb and a noun.
Love begins as a noun: infatuation, passion, merely a thing.
Love has the ability to grow into something much more valuable, something we are committed to...