Every since I remember, my brother was a trouble child, he always had an attitude problem , he was always mad at the world , and because this he was constantly getting in trouble at school at work and as he grew up with his relationships.
I always observed him and stood quiet, to me it was nothing out of this world I've seen him this way all my life, until I realized that his way of being was starting to ruin his and my family's life.
It was then when I decided that he needed some help so I went ahead and told him that his attitude was taking him nowhere fast that it was hurting my family and his but what's more what's hurting him on his everyday life that with that kind of attitude it was going to be hard to achieve his goals in life. That maybe it was a good idea if he seeks professional help somebody that can diagnoses what's happening to him.
At first he refused and insisted that he didn't have a problem , until he realized that ; "The first step to resolve a problem is admitting that you have a problem". And he did, he seeks professional help and kept on with his session where he discussed what bothered him .
I started seeing a different side of him shortly after he started his session and he then gradually learned how to control his anger an attitude becoming a better person , it was now so pleasant being around him , his life did a completely turn for good his life was so good together with his now wife and two year old daughter my family and I loved every time he came around the house because his attitude towards life was so positive and slowly he started reaching al his goals and became such a successful person from that day on.
I think my advice as a sister and as somebody that cares for him so much was the best advice I could've it ever given him , the outcome of his new person made everyone that was close to him and myself so proud to be his family.