Dear beautiful daughter Savanna you are now 15 years old and I have enjoyed watching you grow. When I came into your life, (you being about 3 years old) you learned to trust me. You trusted that when you were hungry, I’d feed you and when you needed comfort, I’d be there for you. Just as you have trusted me to do what is best for you all these years, I now want you to learn to trust yourself to do the same. There will be times where you’ll wonder, “Am I doing the right thing?” “Am I going the right way?” This is normal. I’ve had to ask myself those very same questions. The truth is all we can do is our best at any given moment.
I want you to know along the way to adulthood you will make mistakes, we all make mistakes. The best thing to do when you fall short is learn from the mistake, but don’t dwell on it because it’s a part of being human. My hope is that you will learn from your mistakes and move forward wiser than you were before.
There are a lot of broken people in this world who are so obsessed with being perfect, they can’t admit when they’re wrong. Be able to admit when you’re wrong and if you can, try to make things right with everyone! Even to those who have done you wrong. I don’t know how to say how much me and your dad love you but it is so very much!!.
I want you to know as you grow up and even beyond we will always be here to help guide you, give advice, and tell you how proud you make us! I know life has not been easy, I know you & your Bio mom don’t have the best relationship,but I do believe god has blessed both me and your dad, knowing we both needed someone in our life to help. (Me helping with your girl problems) and your dad helping with my boys issues.) That is one thing I never want you to forget GOD! He hears your every thoughts. And if for some reason you cannot come to me or your dad, GOD will be right there to listen.