Arranged or Love Marriage?
Marriage is the most beautiful relationship that happens to everyone at some point of life. However, it is a huge responsibility too, and it should be taken very seriously. Both of the couple needs to be sure about their feelings toward each other because they will be living and standing by each other through thick and thin. Some people prefer arranged marriage, while others prefer love marriage. In my opinion, arranged marriage and love marriage are both can succeed or fail but I prefer to marry for love because of many reasons.
First of all, there’s more trust in love marriages than in arranged marriages. In love marriages, the couple knows each other very well and for a long time. Also, they have been through many problems and challenges together, which build up the trust between them. Actually, trust is a big thing that you can’t give to someone you don’t know or you don’t love because love is what makes you trust. However, in arranged marriages, parents are the ones who arrange the marriage for their children. Consequently, the couple doesn’t get the chance to know each other enough and they don’t know each one personality. So, how could they trust each other without love? How could someone live under one roof with a stranger? It’s a contradiction that our family taught us not to talk with a stranger but they don’t mind that we live at the same place with someone we don’t know.
Secondly, in love marriages, couples show more flexibility. They don’t mind to change anything that their partner is not comfortable with, even if it’s something in their personality. They let go of some habits and try to change their lifestyles to become more convenient to their partners. For example, I’m one of those people who are very stubborn. I don’t change my mind easily even if what I’m thinking about is wrong. Actually, my fiancé doesn’t like this thing about me. He tried many times to change it and he succeeds. Honestly, I would...