Can you manage to make your wife
even 60 per cent happy?
My research shows that there are two types of husbands ---- the ‘Ganeshjee type’ and the ‘Gobar Ganesh Type’. The ‘Ganeshjee type’ husbands think big (big head), listen more (big ears), ask fewer questions (small mouth), honest (lotus), use nice words (perfume), have patience (raised palm) and so on. Whoever does not so possess any of these or possesses only some of these qualities is ‘Gobar Ganesh’! So… let us develop some good habits; it is never too late!
Assuming that you are going to live for 75 years ---- perhaps plus or minus 10 years ---- and that you, being a businessman, are going to get married at the age of 25, you will be with your wife for 50 years ---- plus or minus 10 years. Right? So why shouldn’t I share with you some of the research which I have carried out on the subject of better ways of making your wife happy and of making her your profitable partner?
The idea of making your wife happy is a very challenging one. To live with a person for 50 years, buddy, you better learn how to make her happy because it is only then that you will also be happy. This is fact number one.
The Ramayana can offer us many lessons, including some on avoiding domestic trouble. Remember that Raja Dashrath’s two promises to his wife Kekayi landed him in a lot of Dharam Sankat. Still later, as a result of chasing the golden deer Maya, Lord Rama found himself involved in a long-drawn-out battle. Well, if this could happen to them, you and I are very small try but we can learn from the mistakes of others. This is fact number two.
After 25 years of married life, I have come to the conclusion that it is extremely difficult to make one’s wife happy. Perhaps it is simpler to make her happy during the first three years or later during the retirement years ---- which I have yet to experience. Of course, There is a secret ---- a very simple one and very easy to follow too, through I have a feeling that...